A quiet little shop in downtown Tokyo serves as a haven for Japan's lost young souls. They share their innermost feelings with their future selves in letters they'll receive exactly one year later.

Jiyucho is a place where people write letters to their future selves
Jiyucho is located in a quiet part of downtown Tokyo
A woman from Okinawa Prefecture reads a letter she wrote to herself a year ago
Jiyucho is quiet, and perfect for a little contemplation
Customers finish their letters the old-fashioned way

Transcript

00:06

Tokyo's Asakusa district is a thriving tourist destination.

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It's always buzzing with people.

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But away from the hustle and bustle...

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...lies a shop with a different sort of appeal.

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And it's loved by young people nationwide.

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Jiyucho is a place where you can really get in touch with yourself.

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- Me in a year's time?
- Delivery, August 25.

01:04

The customers here write letters to their future selves.

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Green, red.

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And those letters will be delivered by Jiyucho one year later.

01:31

Word about the shop spread on social media.

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There are only eight seats.

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And they're always full.

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"Try your best."

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"Something's troubling me deep inside.
I know I can do better."

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Many young people write down messages of encouragement.

02:05

And if you read between the lines, there's a collective sense of unease.

02:12

I don't know how I want to live.
I'm still wondering. Swaying.

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I never have time to really think.

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There's a lot of noise in everyday life.

02:28

Work-related stuff. Smartphones.
And social media.

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Japan is an affluent society.

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But many people find it suffocating.

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So Jiyucho gives them a little room to breathe.

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It's OK to struggle
and stew things over.

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I don't think that
should be discouraged.

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We have not in France.

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It's unique concept, I think it's a beautiful concept.

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Good old-fashioned letters can help ease the stresses of modern life.

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And young people are taking note.

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Hello.

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Today's first customers are schoolmates.

03:48

And they've come all the way from Hyogo Prefecture, western Japan.

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- How did you find out about us?
- Social media.

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They're in Tokyo for an educational event.

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And they stop by Jiyucho before making the long journey home.

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They're provided with everything they need.

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Except for their own thoughts.

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Here you go.

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This is gonna take a while.

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The girls are 17 and 18.

04:39

They'll start job-hunting soon.

04:43

What should I say?

04:50

Writing. Erasing. And starting over.

04:54

Putting their feelings on paper takes almost two hours.

05:05

"I don't want to become an adult."

05:11

"I want to live without regrets.
At least for the next year."

05:22

I hardly ever write real letters.
This is a new experience.

05:30

Bet I'll cry when I see this again.

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Hopes and fears. Signed. Sealed.

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And delivered a year from now.

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- Our letters.
- We'll take good care of them.

05:56

Thank you very much.

06:03

- Take the whole jar.
- Really? Great.

06:10

This woman in her 30s is a regular.

06:13

She comes back every year.

06:22

I've realized that setting aside
time and energy for myself

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can help me be happier.

06:35

This time, she writes about things she wants to stay the same.

06:43

"The people around me may have changed a lot."

06:47

"But if I'm still around a year from now,"

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"I want to maintain my love for those who always look over me with warmth."

06:57

My friends are going through
periods of change.

07:03

Marriage, babies, new jobs.

07:08

Aspects of my life
will also probably evolve.

07:13

But if I put everything in writing,
as if pinning them up on a board,

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I can relive them in a year's time.

07:26

How pretty!

07:28

A bit wonky, but good enough.

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This world demands we always
have the answers.

07:48

Jiyucho values not just the answers,
but the process of getting there too.

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Jiyucho is owned by Koyama Shohei.

08:00

He got the idea from his experience of being an outsider.

08:12

The 32-year-old was born in Tokyo and went to a prestigious school.

08:18

He believed he was on the right track.

08:25

Good job, promotions, marriage.

08:31

I thought I'd be pretty content
with life, despite the constraints.

08:41

But the large company he joined stuck to corporate Japan's long-held seniority system.

08:47

Shohei's ideas never got off the ground.

08:54

Among thousands of employees...

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You'll have to wait years
to get your opportunity.

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His struggle is far from unique.

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More than 30 percent of college graduates in Japan quit their jobs within three years.

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And nearly 90 percent of young job seekers desire a role that "allows them to do what they want to do."

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They seldom get what they want.

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Shohei left his job after about half a year.

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Instead, he went solo developing apps.

09:48

But he couldn't get his venture off the ground.

09:51

Business partners pulled out.

09:54

And he fell into financial difficulties.

09:59

Mornings were the worst.

10:02

I'd wake up,
but there'd be nothing to do.

10:06

No job. No money.

10:09

The world just passed me by.
It was terrifying.

10:17

Shohei always wrote down his thoughts as a way of coping.

10:21

And looking back one day, something caught his eye.

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"I had a dream. A nightmare."

10:37

"I woke in despair, then got up."

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"I made coffee. It was delicious."

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"I will just be myself."

10:54

It became clear that I was writing

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to my future self.

11:03

All that I had experienced.
And what that left in my heart and mind.

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I received it as a letter from
my past self.

11:15

Shohei found great encouragement in his own words.

11:19

But when it came to Japanese society, he still felt like the square peg.

11:28

Why does everyone have to be the same?

11:33

We all love different foods, different music.
And we fall in love with different people.

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But when it comes to work or society,

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why must we face such strong peer
pressure to think and act the same?

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Be nice, and head in one direction.
That makes Japan a good society.

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That's been the mindset for ages.

12:05

One day we stop and ask,
"What am I doing? Who am I?"

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But by that time...

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we'll no longer be able to
find the answer.

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I think that happens to
a lot of people. Me included.

12:28

Shohei longed for a place where people didn't have to conform.

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Somewhere they could be themselves.

12:36

And so he opened Jiyucho.

12:47

Sitting down for 2 hours, writing by hand.
We don't often get the opportunity.

13:00

When I write at work,

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I feel the need to be proper
and correct.

13:12

But here, it's different. Anything goes.
I can really focus on myself.

13:19

- Have a nice year.
- Thanks so much.

13:30

What do you think this is?

13:35

- It's my dream house.
- "Oh."

13:58

Getting along with people at work.

14:05

Junior and senior colleagues.

14:09

Job-hopping could still be an option
until age 35 or so.

14:15

Generally speaking.

14:19

But then what? What do I want to do?

14:26

I tried to put those thoughts
into writing.

14:33

This is terrible!

14:37

Ran out of space midway.

14:52

My grandfather just passed away.

14:57

Before I could give back to him.

15:04

I'm full of regret.

15:08

Be someone
your family and grandfather
can be proud of.

15:18

But this is not just for him.

15:21

I told my future self to try harder.

15:27

I let out all my pent-up emotions.

15:30

Writing them down did me a lot of good.

15:39

Such a nice color.

15:40

It turned out better than I thought.

15:59

Jiyucho has more than 3,500 letters in safekeeping.

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And all will be sent out a year after they were written.

16:28

It's finally here.
Can't wait to open it.

16:33

So exciting.

16:38

Maika is Okinawa born and raised.

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The 20-year-old went to Tokyo last year on her first ever solo trip.

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And to mark the occasion, she wrote a letter to herself.

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It was an adventure.

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Even the simple task of looking up
trains was a first for me.

17:02

Says here I got lost so many times.

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And I got into all sorts of trouble.

17:14

"Read this letter and be excited all over again."

17:19

Maika promised herself she would only write about the good times.

17:29

It was a chance to get away from the confines of the digital world.

17:35

I wanted to say how much fun I had,
and hold nothing back.

17:40

A letter was the best way.

17:47

If I did it on social media

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it might invite jealousy.

17:57

I would not be able to express
my true feelings.

18:04

And I'd have to think too
much before posting.

18:13

So I wrote about my wonderful adventure
in a letter - for my eyes only.

18:23

So glad I did.

18:27

Some people receive their letters when they're feeling down.

18:32

And they find solace in their own words.

18:37

I'm not able to handle much.
Not right now.

18:43

I hope this letter lifts
the emotional weight a little.

18:51

Yes, I really hope so.

18:57

Ayano is 22 years old.

19:00

After university, she started working at a drug store.

19:11

And it's busy, serving a large elderly population.

19:15

Ayano is required to interact with customers and work long hours.

19:23

But after about six months on the job, Ayano says she's losing sight of who she is.

19:36

All sorts of people come to the store.
And there's no one-size-fits-all approach.

19:44

Some say harsh things to me.

19:56

Sorry.

20:03

When I head home on the train,

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I'm often exhausted.

20:11

And I wonder why I'm doing this at all.
What am I working for?

20:19

Some days are like that.

20:27

Ayano says she could never have imagined how the past year has turned out.

20:39

Should we open them now?

20:44

This is exciting.

20:46

I remember the color.

20:51

I wrote about my senior thesis.

21:00

Ayano and her best friend Sachiko read their letters together.

21:05

Did I really write this?

21:08

It's making me happier than I thought.

21:15

"Are you eating and sleeping well?"

21:17

"You're doing an awesome job, just being alive."

21:24

"I love you for sure."

21:25

"From myself in 2022."

21:34

They pore over a stream of kind words from their former selves.

21:42

- Perhaps we really did know how we'd be now.
- Sure did, huh?

21:48

Were we psychic?

21:54

Sachiko also popped a message in her best friend's envelope.

22:08

"Dear Ayano, living in 2023."

22:12

"How are you doing in your first year on the job?"

22:16

"I'm sure the struggles seem never-ending."

22:19

"So if you're feeling down, come out for a breather with me."

22:30

I'm feeling better already.

22:35

Things are the same at work
day in day out.

22:39

But this has brought me a little joy.

22:52

Wow, I was being so blunt.

22:57

24-year-old Anzu has also found life tough.

23:03

Here's what I wrote down.
"Uncertain. Boxed in. Sinking."

23:13

"23, woman, no job,
living with parents."

23:25

The letter she wrote a year ago reads like a cruel self-assessment.

23:41

She finished high school, and found herself hopping from one job to the next.

23:47

Anzu says she felt like a nobody, and kept comparing herself with others.

24:00

I just couldn't do it.

24:04

I would quit jobs after a week
or even just three days.

24:10

Everyone else was getting along fine.
Going to school, studying, working.

24:18

Seeing other people get on in life
made me jealous.

24:29

Anzu eventually found out about Jiyucho.

24:42

She poured out her emotions, hoping it might help her take a step forward.

24:52

I'm asking myself:
Where should I work? What can I do?

25:03

I can really see just how much
I was struggling back then.

25:13

The letter gives Anzu the chance for some much-needed self-reflection in the present day.

25:25

"May not be straight."

25:27

"Maybe a few cracks and bent out of shape."

25:32

"Or about to break."

25:37

"But now I've come to realize I have all these emotions inside myself."

25:52

We're not all the same.

25:53

But we all stand here, for sure, in our own way.

26:02

When I have worries,

26:08

I wish I could resolve them sooner.

26:17

But this letter has reassured me.
I'm OK just the way I am.

26:28

And it's helped me realize
I should be kinder on myself.

26:42

Anzu has since found a new job
And it's going well.

26:57

She decides to write
another letter.

27:04

I've found a job.

27:09

But I still worry.

27:15

Maybe that's fine.

27:22

Dear myself, a year from now.

27:29

Different days bring
different feelings.

27:33

Embrace them all
There is no right or wrong.

27:46

Done.