#17 When You Disagree

Drama "Xuan Tackles Japan!"
After passing out, Xuan finds herself waking up in a hotel room. Ota feels responsible for Xuan's blackout and tells her that she no longer needs to be a part of the planning team for the hotel's autumn campaign. But Xuan actually wants to plan for the campaign. What should she do?
"Onomatopoeia" -Share Feelings- Dondon
"Welcome to My Japan!" focuses on the life of Silvia DE SOUZA from Brazil, who works at a factory that coats metal parts in Toyama Prefecture!

Drama "Xuan Tackles Japan!" #17 When You Disagree
"Today's Strategy" Acknowledge the other person's opinion before saying your own
"Onomatopoeia" -Share Feelings- Dondon
"Welcome to My Japan!" focuses on the life of Silvia DE SOUZA from Brazil, who works at a factory that coats metal parts in Toyama!

Transcript

00:07

Activate Your Japanese!

00:13

What would you do
if you were Xuan?

00:19

One!

00:20

"What's he counting for?"

00:22

Xuan! Xuan!

00:26

"Is this a boxing ring?"

00:29

"I'm in a match!"

00:31

Get up, Xuan!

00:33

Xuan!

00:42

Xuan?

00:44

Ota-san!

00:50

Where am I?

00:52

A hotel room.

00:54

What happened?

00:56

Don't you remember? You passed out.

01:00

I passed out?

01:03

"Huh...?"

01:08

Oh no! I was still at work.

01:12

Don't worry about that.

01:15

The doctor said
it's a mild case of anemia.

01:19

Lie down for a while and go home.

01:24

I'm sorry.

01:25

The autumn campaign and the new work...

01:30

It was too much.

01:32

I'm not a good floor manager.

01:35

Please don't...

01:37

Take two or three days off. All right?

01:44

Okay.

01:45

And I'll ask someone else
to work on the autumn campaign.

01:52

We'll get back to work.

01:54

Let's go.

02:07

"So someone else is going to work on
the autumn campaign..."

02:21

Are you okay with that?

02:23

Yansu!

02:26

Don't you want to plan for
the autumn campaign?

02:32

I do.

02:34

To be honest, I really do.

02:37

Then go and tell Ota-san!

02:40

I can't.

02:42

I've caused trouble fainting.

02:46

And she's made up her mind.

02:50

I see. I get it.

02:53

You're better off just doing
everything your boss says.

02:58

That's not it.

03:00

It's just that...

03:03

It's hard for me to say I disagree.

03:07

What would she think?

03:11

You'll do nothing
because of what she might think, but you still wish you were
working on the campaign.

03:20

What do you want to do?!

03:22

See? You're angry.
This is why I'm reluctant.

03:27

Even you get upset
when people contradict you, right?

03:31

That might be true, but you need to learn
how to speak your mind tactfully.

03:41

"Tactfully" is the hard part.

03:46

Wait...

03:48

What you said just now...

03:51

That was good.

03:57

"That might be true, but..."
Is that it?

04:01

Yes!

04:03

When you say,
"That might be true, but..."

04:09

it's like you've listened to my opinion.

04:12

It doesn't upset me.

04:15

Okay.

04:16

That's a good point.

04:19

The important thing is to accept
what the other person is saying.

04:26

To accept what the other person
is saying...

04:31

You're back already?

04:34

Sorry for making you worry.

04:36

Are you okay?

04:38

You can take more time off.

04:41

I'm really okay.

04:44

Well, if you're sure.

04:48

Ota-san, could I still be on the planning team
for the autumn campaign?

05:01

Xuan, it's hard to do two new things at once.

05:07

Maybe you need to focus on
restaurant duties.

05:11

That might be true, but...

05:14

I really want to try this planning job.

05:20

Why do you want it so much?

05:22

Working at the hotel, I find many things difficult.

05:28

But as long as I continue to work hard
with Monica and Danny, a new future might be waiting for me.

05:40

That's why I really want this opportunity
to plan for the campaign.

05:47

Please let me.

05:49

I understand how you feel.

05:52

But you fainted because of work.

05:55

I won't overdo it.

05:58

So please let me work on
the autumn campaign.

06:06

Well...

06:09

Why not let her?

06:12

Rei-san.

06:15

She'll do it, even if you say no.

06:19

She's so passionate,
she even thinks about my bento.

06:23

Um... That was just...

06:27

All right.

06:30

But promise me.

06:32

You'll tell me if it's too much.

06:37

Yes, ma'am.

06:41

Such a hard worker!

06:43

And she's blessed with good colleagues!

06:50

I'll base my next novel on her.

06:54

Yes!

06:56

I can see it.

06:58

I feel a masterpiece coming!

07:03

What are you doing?

07:05

Just doing some yoga.

07:07

I told you no bathrobes!

07:09

"To make someone listen to your opinion,
you need to accept their opinion first."

07:16

"That's the important thing."

07:19

"Today's Strategy!"

07:24

Now, I'm sure there are times when someone says something
that you don't agree with.

07:34

But telling them you don't agree
could make them upset.

07:41

What will you do if that happens?

07:46

Let's look at the strategy Xuan used.

07:54

Maybe you need to focus on
restaurant duties.

07:58

That might be true, but...

08:01

I really want to try this planning job.

08:11

Acknowledge the other person's opinion
before saying your own.

08:19

"That might be true, but..."

08:24

If you say this phrase
before stating your opinion, it will let the other person know
you've understood their point of view.

08:35

And they won't get upset.

08:40

But be careful how you say it.

08:44

"That might be true, but..."

08:47

Sounding defiant will have
the opposite effect.

08:51

It's important to be polite and
respectful too, just like Xuan.

08:59

Goodbye for now.

10:10

Meet senpai from all over Japan, Tsutsu Uraura!

10:14

Let's hear about their lives.

10:19

Today's senpai is Silvia de Souza from Brazil.

10:27

She works at a factory in Toyama City, Toyama Prefecture.

10:32

It specializes in painting metal parts.

10:38

These include parts for bus seats, window frames, and more.

10:45

Silvia studied Japanese in Brazil for six months and came to Japan in 2002.

10:54

Silvia's job is to inspect painted parts.

10:58

She ensures that only perfect parts are shipped out.

11:02

It's a vital position.

11:07

The paint can't be too thin.

11:11

And it can't be too thick.

11:16

No dust or dirt, either.

11:19

These checks cannnot be done by a machine.

11:22

They're done visually.

11:24

Silvia can complete a check in just eight seconds.

11:27

She's the fastest at the company.

11:31

She can even hum as she works.
The rest of us can't do that.

11:38

Whenever she takes time off,
we start to worry.

11:45

Silvia used to run a small diner in Brazil.

11:52

Then her husband, who was working in Japan, asked her to join him.

11:59

She's now a permanent resident of Japan.

12:01

She's proud of her work.

12:04

It's an important job.
I don't want to make mistakes.

12:15

Silvia lives in Imizu City, in Toyama.

12:20

This area has an abundance of fresh seafood.

12:25

Silvia's favorite is shiroebi, or Japanese glass shrimp.

12:31

She likes eating shiroebi in sandwiches.

12:35

It's not sugary, but it's sweet.

12:43

She spends her days off with her grandchildren.

12:48

Imizu is often used as a filming location for movies.

12:54

I like this older style.
It feels like we're in a movie.

12:59

This is the Venice of Toyama.

13:08

There are nearly 3,000 foreign residents of Imizu City.

13:14

Many of them come here, where they can learn a variety of martial arts and dances.

13:24

Silvia started this organization.

13:27

I don't just want to share Brazilian culture.

13:29

I want to share different cultures
with foreign and Japanese people.

13:36

I want it to be a place for
international exchange.

13:45

Silvia studies Japanese by going to Japanese classes held by local volunteers.

13:53

- I loved climbing trees.
- Was that fun?

13:57

When I wanted to eat a guava, I
would climb up and pick one myself.

14:05

But there's more.

14:06

She can also ask for help with worries or issues she's facing.

14:13

Here are Silvia's favorite words.

14:16

We're in this together.

14:18

Words about people helping each other.

14:22

I might have trouble with neighbors
or with throwing out trash.

14:29

Other people will help me out.

14:32

So I might cook something and
share it with them in thanks.

14:42

Having a place to learn has been a source of help for Silvia.

14:46

She hopes to support and revitalize her community in the future.