Kayla's Festival of Friendship

We visit the Iizuna Highlands in Nagano Prefecture where Canadian Kayla Afrin runs a popular café. Having grown up under foster care due to losing her parents at a young age, she treasures her connection to the people of Iizuna. With local friends, Kayla organizes a big festival. However, as she is getting ready for the event, life brings a new hardship. Join us to find out more. We also meet Tumi Grendel Markan from the UK, an English-speaking guide at a Japanese sword museum in Setouchi, Okayama Prefecture.

Also the café's chef, Kayla specializes in Caribbean-style cooking
In preparation for the upcoming festival, Kayla and her friends hold a meeting
With her husband Daisuke, Kayla greets the crowd at the festival
UK-born Tumi Grendel Markan is an English-speaking guide at the Bizen Osafune Sword Museum

Transcript

00:01

Where We Call Home

00:07

The Iizuna Highlands in Nagano City...

00:10

...are the location of a popular café.

00:16

It's a place for the locals to meet and relax.

00:23

Preparing meals is this Canadian woman.

00:28

Here you are!

00:32

Kayla Afrin, who moved to Japan in 2019.

00:37

She set up her café hoping to create a gathering spot for the highlanders.

00:42

"Open!"

00:45

And, wishing to build even more connections within the community, she took on a new endeavor.

00:53

"The moment I saw that place, and I looked at it, this beautiful campground with this pond,

00:58

and I was like: ‘Man, let's have a festival here. It's so beautiful!'"

01:04

She and her friends are organizing a festival.

01:10

- You're OK?
- Yes.

01:12

We followed Kayla over six months, as she prepared for this collective project.

01:24

Peeking out from beyond the Nagano City center is Mount Iizuna, more than 1,900 meters high.

01:33

Spreading below, the Iizuna Highlands are a 20-minute drive from downtown Nagano.

01:39

Home to a camping ground, it's an area that draws in many tourists.

01:46

Right by the site is Kayla's café.

01:53

She named it "Koshikake," a Japanese word that means "a spot to sit on," well-suited for a place to unwind.

02:03

It opened in 2021.

02:08

Kayla runs the business with her husband Daisuke.

02:12

Good morning!

02:14

Drawn by the rich natural landscape, many people settled down in the region.

02:21

Kayla started her café with the hope it would help newcomers get to know one another.

02:27

A popular menu item is her homemade hamburger.

02:33

A generous beef patty seasoned with Caribbean-style spices.

02:37

It often sells out.

02:44

- "How is it?"
- Very good.

02:50

Very 'American!'

02:55

Kayla was born in Vancouver, Canada, in 1993 to a Caucasian father and Afro-Cuban mother.

03:02

However, right from her early childhood, life brought a series of trials.

03:12

When Kayla was only four years old, her father was the victim of a criminal incident, that cost him his life.

03:22

To cope with the shock, her mother fell into alcoholism, and became unable to raise her children.

03:29

Kayla grew up with some relatives and in foster homes.

03:33

Later, her mother too passed away.

03:38

And, earlier this year, her brother, from whom she'd been separated through childhood,

03:43

and who had been homeless, was found dead.

03:50

"When I was younger, I remember feeling very alone and very detached from the world."

03:55

"And, what I needed to do to keep moving was form a purpose."

04:01

And so, in search for a purpose in life, after university, Kayla traveled the world.

04:12

That's when she met Daisuke, who was working in IT at the time.

04:15

Looking to start a new life together, they moved to Iizuna and got married.

04:23

Kayla, who'd been deprived of close family ties, values friendship above all.

04:30

She treasures connections
between people unrelated by blood.

04:36

She values the local community.
I'm her only family here in Japan.

04:46

So, she strongly wishes to build ties
with the people who live here.

04:57

Kayla also puts a lot of effort into her other passion project:

05:01

the festival held on the camping site.

05:09

With the participation of many people, she aims to create a place and occasion for all to enjoy music and art.

05:20

Last year, thanks to help from the regulars at the café,

05:23

the festival "Mori no Koshikake," or "A Place to Rest in the Forest," was born.

05:30

Though it was a success, it had required a lot of effort to prepare and finance it.

05:36

"All of these people really put their heart and soul into making the festival happen and helping me,

05:42

because they just wanted to, really. They did it for no compensation, and they gave it their everything."

05:49

"And I was very, very impressed, because rarely do I meet people like that in this life."

05:57

Mid-May. In preparation for this year's festival, the couple gathered their friends for a meeting.

06:10

As this will be the second edition, they mobilized even more people to help make the event an annual occurrence from now on.

06:19

Kayla makes a suggestion.

06:22

"Hi, let's start, let's start! OK!"

06:28

"So, just going over some of the newer things that happened in our business structure."

06:33

"We want to be a cooperative business, and I want to explain that to you guys."

06:38

"So, 'Koshikake,' as you know,

06:39

but we want to expand from just a café to a festival, to an eco-village, and into an enterprise."

06:47

Kayla proposes the founding of a cooperative, where people sharing the festival's vision

06:52

would contribute financially and manage the event, making it easier to hold it every year.

07:01

Kayla also wants to further expand on the original theme.

07:08

"Our main goals of the festival have always been healing, or cooperation and connection."

07:17

"And then, I was thinking that maybe, it would be a good idea to start with healing

07:22

since we have the history of Iizuna music, right?"

07:32

Summer has come to the highlands.

07:37

At the café, mouth-watering dishes line the counter.

07:41

They're having a barbecue party.

07:46

It's one of the many events held for the local community to socialize.

07:53

This is also to gather funds for the festival.

07:59

The menu features Kayla's specialties, recipes she learned while living with relatives in Florida.

08:09

"Then we had some American stuff too, you know. We had a hamburger, sausage, some grilled chicken...

08:14

kind of standard barbecue things. And then, yeah, the special today was the... this Caribbean food."

08:22

"...just community event. It's the summertime, and we should have a little party."

08:33

And to strengthen connections among the members working on the festival, a live performance takes place.

08:42

Rocking up the café is a band called "The Factors."

08:46

On guitar is Miyashita Jody Tenku, a native of Iizuna, who understands Kayla's vision,

08:52

and is participating in organizing the upcoming big event.

09:02

This is Jody Tenku's studio.

09:10

His father was a composer and performer of new-age, or healing music, based in the Iizuna Highlands, Miyashita Fumio.

09:20

Miyashita's name is forever engraved in the cultural history of Iizuna.

09:25

This year's festival also aims to commemorate the 20th anniversary of his passing.

09:31

I was moved by Kayla
and Daisuke's passion...

09:38

and their character.

09:40

Just between you and me, I hope
the festival will be as big as Fuji Rock...

09:48

and support the local community.

09:52

It'd be a major event in Nagano.

09:56

Gotta dream big!

10:02

More and more people, sympathetic with the philosophy behind the festival, are joining the cooperative.

10:12

All set!

10:15

"Give me the money."

10:19

Seeing all the efforts they put in,
I want to contribute in any way I can.

10:29

This summer brings good news to the young couple.

10:32

Kayla is pregnant.

10:38

As she couldn't grow up living with her own parents,

10:41

the thought of having a child worried Kayla, but she knows she's not alone.

10:49

"I started thinking about what would I do if we died? Who would take care of our kid?"

10:53

"And I actually realized that I have this beautiful family;

10:57

I have people that I trust, that actually would step up and take care of that kid,

11:01

and that, for the first time in my life I felt, wow,

11:05

I already have the community that I've been trying to build."

11:08

"I already have the family that I've been trying to build."

11:11

"It's right here. And yeah, it was a beautiful moment."

11:17

However, this happiness was only momentary.

11:25

Two weeks later, Daisuke heads out to submit some documents for the cooperative.

11:34

It's a big step for the festival.

11:40

But Kayla isn't accompanying her husband to city hall.

11:46

- That's all for now.
- Thank you.

11:52

He explains she isn't feeling well, and is resting at home.

12:00

She's ten weeks pregnant. They did tests.

12:04

The baby's developing, but...

12:06

they still can't detect a heartbeat.

12:11

It's a little worrying.

12:19

Then, at the café's entrance, a notice.

12:26

"Closed temporarily."

12:27

Kayla had a miscarriage.

12:32

The café was closed for a month.

12:38

Though Kayla isn't here to lead the project, her friends take over.

12:48

- I'll put it up outside.
- Thank you.

12:54

The poster was designed by Kayla.

13:02

- Hang in there.
- Thank you!

13:07

- No envelope, but...
- We'll use it wisely.

13:12

They hand out posters and gather donations.

13:20

- I'll put it here.
- Nice!

13:25

- Very visible.
- Yes.

13:28

- A little contribution.
- Thank you!

13:31

- It's not much.
- It is!

13:36

A month later, at an event held at a shrine in another part of Nagano City...

13:44

...Keyla is among the participants.

13:50

Little by little, she's coming to terms with her feeling of loss.

13:58

Her friends are here to encourage her.

14:02

This shrine worships a deity for kids.

14:07

"Children...god."

14:09

- Here?
- Here.

14:10

- Really?
- Yes.

14:12

This shrine is also
for a god of childbirth.

14:15

Let's go pray.

14:21

They offer a prayer for the god of childbirth.

14:25

Next to the main shrine is a smaller one.

14:34

The Japanese religion of Shintoism is a polytheistic faith,

14:38

meaning that a single shrine is often dedicated to the worship of more than one deity.

14:55

"I lost the baby, and I had a miscarriage."

14:57

"Uhmm, but the kind of person that I am, as I want to use all of those horrible things,

15:04

and turn it into something else. I want to say that energy is never wasted. You can transform it."

15:12

Autumn makes an early arrival to the highlands.

15:19

The time of the "Mori no Koshikake" festival has come.

15:23

Overcoming her sadness, Kayla moves forward.

15:29

- You're OK?
- Yes.

15:31

- "I might have to move it."
- "Watch, out! Watch out! Watch out!"

15:35

Supervising the stage setup and live performances is Jody Tenku.

15:43

He took care of finding performers and concert staff...

15:49

... and does other odd jobs.

15:55

The shed behind the café found some unwanted tenants: hornets.

16:00

Needless to say, they pose a risk to both staff and spectators.

16:06

Jody makes short work of their large nest.

16:13

I'll do anything for the concerts...

16:16

... even removing nests!

16:20

Thanks to the support of Kayla's friends, the festival is ready to begin.

16:31

Keyla put a small altar by the pond.

16:34

She wanted a spot to offer prayers, and her friends set it up for her.

16:46

She put photographs of her family members who passed on.

16:56

Her mother...

17:00

... grandmother...

17:04

... father...

17:06

... brother...

17:10

... and for her baby she didn't have the chance to meet.

17:22

She prays for them to watch over the festival.

17:40

More than 40 stalls sell all kinds of products.

17:44

Daisuke worked hard to find participants.

17:48

"Good evening, everyone!"

17:54

"I just want to say thank all of you so much for making this possible."

17:59

"Like, we could not make this event happen without all of you."

18:03

"Really! So, from the bottom of my heart, I really want to say thank you."

18:08

Thanks for coming. It means a lot!
Let's start the Koshikake Festival!

18:17

Over 40 acts, including professionals, perform.

18:20

Many are from Nagano Prefecture, and some even came from Tokyo and Kyoto.

18:30

The event lasts for three days.

18:45

The energy of the festival draws everyone in.

18:53

The bonds, that unite Keyla and her newfound family, are stronger than ever.

19:00

"I can feel it, you know?"

19:07

"I can heal it, you know?"

19:14

"Here I am"

19:22

"Here we are"

19:26

"Now our lives are here"

19:31

"Oh, I'm so happy when I'm being hugged by all these happy people!"

19:35

"I feel amazing!"

19:36

"So, I think it was a really beautiful thing that just happened right here."

19:40

"And I was so happy to be a part of it."

19:44

"Mori no Koshikake, ahhh"

20:13

Hi! I'm Tumi from the UK.

20:18

I'm a guide at the Bizen Osafune
Sword Museum.

20:22

I want to promote the appeal
of Japanese swords to the world.

20:36

Setouchi, Okayama Pref.

20:41

Eastern Okayama was once called Bizen.

20:45

It was the leading sword-producing
region in Japan.

20:50

Around 40% of swords that are national
and cultural treasures were made in Bizen.

20:58

Bizen Osafune Sword Museum

21:04

"Thank you very much!"

21:06

"Thank you very much!"

21:09

Today, a cultural exchange group
visits the museum.

21:16

I'm Sugihara, this museum's curator.

21:21

"So, this is the curator, Sugihara."

21:24

I heard there many visitors
from New Zealand today.

21:29

So, I asked our English guide
Tumi for help.

21:34

"My name is Tumi, and I'll be translating into English for all of you from abroad."

21:39

Many of the guests from abroad
have never seen Japanese swords.

21:45

Tumi gives a short lecture on the basics.

21:50

"... and especially, the amount of curve, and the point section, the length of that, change massively between periods."

21:57

- "How tall are you?"
- "Uh, 180."

22:00

"180."

22:01

He's 180.

22:02

Please stand about here.

22:05

"So, if you could stand about here."

22:09

Look at the sword.

22:10

"And please have a look at the sword."

22:13

"So, if you stand in the correct place based on your height in centimeters,

22:18

you should be able to see that the "hamon," which is the wavy line,

22:21

is lit up by the reflection of the spotlight, basically."

22:26

"Depending on where you stand, you can either see everything or nothing."

22:30

"But, of course, while they're beautiful, there's a specific way that you should look at them."

22:35

"There was similarities with how to look at art."

22:38

"So, yeah, that was very interesting to me."

22:42

- "I'll be in touch."
- "Excellent!"

22:44

"Thank you!"

22:49

Tumi had an interest in European
medieval weaponry from childhood.

22:56

On his 18th birthday, his mother gave
him a book on katana: Japanese swords.

23:01

Tumi found a new passion.

23:05

In 2018, he worked for six months
as an intern at the museum...

23:09

and later became a full-time employee.

23:14

European weapons of the Middle Ages
are essentially historical artifacts.

23:21

They're seen as a culture
that's now extinct.

23:27

But there still are swordsmiths in Japan.

23:31

It's a culture that still has value
and importance today.

23:36

I see katana as symbols that encompass
Japanese culture as a whole.

23:42

So, for that reason...

23:44

I wanted to do this kind of work
here at the museum.

23:56

This is my supervisor,
Sugihara-san, the curator.

23:59

He teaches me so much.

24:03

He's now in his second year...

24:07

as a full-time staff here.

24:10

He learns so quickly what his work
and position involves.

24:17

Other staff members have come
to rely on him.

24:22

I'm so glad to see his progress.

24:28

Keep it up!

24:29

Yes.

24:33

On his days off, Tumi learns sword-making
from an artisan at the museum's workshop.

24:40

Shave here as much as possible.

24:45

You can shave the rest along that.

24:50

Tumi is working on the "habaki," which
holds the sword in place in its scabbard.

25:00

I think this is the best place
to study Japanese swords.

25:06

It's got so many great katana on display.

25:11

And this is the only museum that also has
a swordsmith who forges katana.

25:27

Maybe a bit more.

25:32

He rapidly learns and follows
my instructions. I'm amazed.

25:37

I hope he becomes my apprentice,
and does engravings in the blades.

25:52

My treasure is this knife
my wife made for me.

25:58

Tumi met his wife during a knife-making
workshop held at the museum.

26:05

He cherishes this memento
that brought them together.

26:10

We were at the same museum
on the same day.

26:14

What were the odds of us meeting?

26:19

I can't help but think it was fate.

26:24

Today, katana aren't weapons.
They are precious cultural assets.

26:32

So, I want to keep learning about them.